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Our Children's Needs - Part 5
Robert Elias Najemy
STIMULUS TO GROW
Children want to learn. They need to learn. Their survival and growth depend
on it. All children are full of curiosity and would remain that way all their
lives if that natural desire to learn was not turned off and, in many cases,
completely destroyed by our present educational system and general social
attitudes towards children. What are some of these factors which discourage
the natural inclination of the child toward learning?
1. The mechanical approach of the present educational system does not allow
children to investigate their natural interests. They are required to be
interested in a specific subject at a specific age and even at a specific hour
of the day. And even if they should become interested in spite of this
unnatural process, the moment they start investigating that subject, they is
told that they must now leave that, because it is now time to study another
subject. Thus our children become disconnected from their inner motivation
towards learning. They learn to accept whatever is given to them through the
school system, which occupies so much of their time, that they have virtually
no time or energy for personal study of some subject that may really interest
them. Learning loses its interest and begins to have no meaning. It is no
longer pleasurable.
2. The fact that the material they are forced to study is irrelevant to their
daily life is another factor, which dampens their interest in learning. They
function on the impulse of needs. If what they are learning has no relation to
their needs, then they lose interest in it quickly. Children are forced to
memorize many useless facts in the present system. This can hardly be
considered the preparation of a human being to be a thinking, creative member
of society. It is more like the preparation of a number of programmed robots,
without the ability to analyze and think clearly.
3. The fear of failure or of making a mistake causes our children to feel
anxiety with respect to the process of learning. Too much emphasis is given to
grades and who is better or best, rather than to how much effort they have
made, or to what they have learned. The emphasis is on results, in terms of
grades, and not on the ability to think. When they do not do well for some
reason, they are made to feel bad, rejected and inferior. This negative
experience turns them off to the process of learning.
Often their only solution is to decide to give up the effort altogether and
take on the role of "the failure" and not try at all. In such situation
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