Judi's story

Love being a grandma!

Katharine and Brenden arrived at Denton Regional Hospital last night so Katharine could be induced.  It was the day after her due date, and her induction was because of her complication of kidney stones.  Mike and Chris and I drove up at about 9:00.  Kelly (Brenden's Dad) got there at about 10:30 and at about midnight Anthony arrived, having driven straight there after leaving Denver at noon yesterday.  We had a very festive atmosphere in the birthing suite, calling Alex in Chicago, so all of us were there for Kath and Brenden.  At a little after 11:00 we all briefly left the room so that a nurse could place a pill in Kath's vagina that resulted in mild contractions all night. 
Anthony went back to Dallas to sleep, Kelly went to Brenden & Kath's house to try (unsuccessfully, I think) to sleep, and the boys went out to their car, in the hospital parking lot, to sleep.  I slept in my car in the hospital parking lot for a couple of hours (quite comfortably) but went back upstairs at about 5 AM Thursday morning.  Katharine and Brenden had gotten a little sleep, but both were awake then and Kath asked me to rub her back.  Brenden stretched out on the fold-up bed in the room to get a little sleep.  Eventually Kath asked if I'd mind just snuggling up with her and trying to get a little sleep.  Would I mind?  :))  I was curled up in bed with her and we were all sound asleep at about 8:00 AM when her doctor came in to check on her.  He quipped "I know we have a bed shortage, but this is ridiculous!"  :)   He examined her and then broke her bag of waters to move labor along, before leaving for his office.
In a very short time, labor began in earnest.  Katharine had a little period of time then where it was pretty hard, and she sent everyone out of the room except me.  For much of it I just held her, forehead to forehead, talking her through the contractions.  They were strong and hard and close together, and she got sick, but we got through that, and then everything began to happen pretty quickly after that.  I was sitting with her and Brenden had just come back into the room when she became very irritable.  I recognize transition when I see it, although I couldn't quite believe it had happened so quickly.
I left Brenden with her and hurried to the nurse's station and asked for someone to come examine her.  I said she was in transition, but I don't think anyone believed me.  A nurse we hadn't met examined her, because her nurse had gone downstairs to eat breakfast.  The unknown nurse announced Kath was at 8 centimeters, and left the room. Within a few minutes Katharine said she had to push.  I told her not to push until she'd been examined once more, and I ran back out to the front desk to ask where her nurse and the doctor were.  There was no time for an epidural, although at 4 cm the nurse had given her a little demerol-like stuff in her iv that she hated because it did nothing for the pain, just made her loopy.  The front desk called her doctor and asked him to come over stat, and her nurse hurried into the room, examined her, and gave her the go-ahead to start pushing.  She had gone from 4 cm to 10 cm in about 45 minutes. 
I went to the foot of the bed then and held her feet, putting all of my weight into it, so she could push against my hands.  With each push, I could see Alexander's head bulging her perineum until his head began to crown, and after that, with each push, I was able to see the top of his head!  What an incredible thrill!  She had about 20 minutes of pushing altogether, and then her doctor arrived and I moved out of the way so he could catch.  At the very last minute he did an episiotomy.  Alexander Augustus Scott burst into the world at exactly 11:00 AM on August 29, 2002.  The cord was wrapped 3 times around his neck but clearly not causing a problem as he began to cry, loudly and lustily, almost immediately.  Brenden cut the cord and Alexander was measured: birthweight 8 lbs. 9oz, length 20", head circumference 14 1/2", chest circumference 13 1/2", Apgars 9/9.  To see a child born is a beautiful, joyous, humbling experience, but to see one's grandchild come into this world...AMAZING!!!  I was quite overcome, and wept (very happily!).   
Mike, Chris & Kelly had been pacing in the hallway.  They came into the room within about 5 minutes of Alexander's being born.  Kelly held Alexander and wept.  We called Alex in Chicago, and I held the phone next to Alexander as he cried so Alex could hear him.  We all talked to Alex, and the boys were amazed by the whole thing, but spent a lot of time turning to the wall as Kath began the business of establishing breastfeeding.  At about 12:30, Anthony came into the room. He kissed Kath, hugged Brenden, held Alexander, and wept.  All in all, a pretty emotional experience!  :) 
We got Katharine and Brenden and Alexander settled in, and then we left.  Kelly drove back to his place in Melissa to take care of his chocolate lab, Jane Doe.  Anthony and the boys and I had lunch together, and then we all drove back to Dallas, where all of us went to bed and slept soundly. 
This evening,  I picked up Anthony and we went up and saw them again.  Everyone is well, and Anthony and I took turns holding Alexander and then I rocked him to sleep while Katharine and Brenden ate their dinner.  He snuggled up under my chin and made little throaty, snuffly baby sounds (heaven!). They get released tomorrow. I'll be up there tomorrow night and whenever she needs me for the next several days.  More later, but wow, am I happy.  And he smells WONDERFUL!  :))




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